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THE GUILT A DISABLED PERSON FEELS IN A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP

I recently did an Instagram Live with two women who are both caregivers to their husbands (they are also guest writers on The Graceful Boon) for different reasons. We had wonderful conversations together. We talked about our respective husbands, how many couple don’t the vows, ‘For better and worse; in sickness and in health,’ seriously, …

WHAT BEING A CARETAKER TO MY HUSBAND AND BROTHER ENTAILS

Story By: Meriam Boldewijn What most people know about me is that I love traveling and that I was the owner of a web shop in exclusive clothing for full-figured women. I’m still blown away that I have been able to give so many full-figured women more confidence, let them see the beauty in themselves …

MY HUSBAND WAS PRONOUNCED CANCER-FREE. WHAT’S NEXT?

Story By: Ashley Jackson In March 2020, my husband, Troy was pronounced cancer free, and we were so overjoyed. After battling for almost three years, we finally got the miracle that we had prayed for so long. Even Troy’s doctors were so happy with the results and his will to keep fighting! God was showing …

A PEEK INTO A LIFE OF A CAREGIVER

Story By: Ashley Jackson I will never forget March 28, 2017, when the doctor told us that my fiancé, Troy, had Stage 4 squamous cell carcinoma of the nasal cavity. Oh, and by the way, it was a rare type of cancer with a 35% survival rate. We were devastated, especially because Troy just proposed …

THE SEXISM THAT COMES WITH AN INVISIBLE ILLNESS

Betty White lived to be 99 years old, and was just 17 days away from turning 100 before she passed away on New Year’s Eve 2021. Of course, she died at an old age, but her longevity made people like me believe she’d live forever and ever. She was witty, funny, and full of charm …

HEALING DOESN’T MEAN THE DAMAGE NEVER EXISTED

Story By: Candace-Anne Katherine Healing doesn’t mean the damage never existed.  It means the damage no longer controls our lives” ___Aksahy Dubey Quote My 30’s were the least enjoyable of my time here on earth – not like a year – but the whole freaking decade. It was a time full of darkness & profound …

CHOOSE YOUR HARD – A BIPOLAR DISORDER EDITION

Story By: Michelle Reittinger Choose Your Hard! “Choose your hard” has become a mantra for me over the past decade as I have gradually learned how to live well with bipolar disorder. It has been one of the most important insights into what it takes to live a healthy, balanced, productive life. It has also …

THE EXCUSE OF A DISABILITY BECOMING A PRIVILEGE

A friend of mine recently messaged me to ask for some advice on a dilemma she was having. She had a friend who was in a tricky situation, and my friend wanted to get some advice from on what advice she should give to her friend. Her inquest went something like this: “I have a …

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