Shallon Lester is a former editor at ‘Star Magazine’, a life-advice Youtuber, and author. She’s the self-proclaimed ‘Barbie Meets Dr. Phil.’ She’s the friend that everyone needed during their time of need and struggles. She made her audience believe that she was really there for you and that she wanted to befriend them. She’s made a career out of an entirely f*cked up generation. This is someone that mocked Pete Davidson and Selena Gomez for their struggles with mental health, as well as someone that said, ‘The mentally ill think they’re cool.’ even after D’angello Wallace, another Youtuber, made two videos about her that destroyed her reputation in 2020, she’s still thriving and making the big $$$. We already know that she’s a liar, a manipulator, a scammer, and even a pedophile. So it begs the question: how can someone still be successful despite their disturbing, troubling, and questionable behaviour? Let’s discuss….
Author: Stacie Kiselman
Shannon Ford: All Things A Hiring Manager Should Expect From A Female Narcissistic Employee – And Tips On How To Better Manager Them
Shannon Ford is a podcaster, blogger and influencer. But did you know that she was also the social media director at Uncommon James, the company founded by ‘Laguna Beach’ and ‘The Hills’ alum, Kristin Cavallari? You might also recognize Ford if you ever watched ‘Very Cavallari’, another reality show led by Cavallari which chronicled the business operations of Uncommon James. Here, we break down the traits of a narcissist employee as looked through in the eyes of Shannon Ford, we analyze what an employer can do to better manage a narcissist employee, and answer whether or not a narcissist employee can ever change. Let’s discuss…
Kristin Cavallari: How To Spot Narcissistic Abuse – The 13 Characteristics Of A Narcissistic Parent, Romantic Partner, And Friend
Kristin Cavallari started her career at age 17 when she starred on ‘Laguna Beach’ and ‘The Hills’ thereafter. But she’s become her own person since those days. She’s now a mother of 3, a bestselling author, a podcaster, and a businesswoman. But everything came at a price. She’d been surrounded by narcissistic behaviour from a very young age, starting with her father, continuing on to her ex-husband, Jay Cutler, to even her former friend, Kelly Henderson. Here, we break down her relationships with these 3 people by using her own descriptions of them and what we’d seen on ‘Very Cavallari’ a show that aired between 2018 and 2020, and then we use them as a guideline to spotting narcissists in our own lives. Let’s discuss…
Heidi Montag: The 9 Main Reasons For Her Lack Of Self-Worth And Low Self-Esteem – And How They Led Her To Make Bad Decisions In Business & In Life
Heidi Montag is a reality star, a businesswoman, a wife and a mother. She was also friends with Lauren Conrad, but when the friendship came to end, Heidi almost became the most hated person in America in the 2000’s during their time on ‘The Hills’. Over time, however, we came to realize that Heidi wasn’t actually a bad person, and neither was her husband, Spencer. Here, we discuss Heidi’s lack of self-worth and low self-esteem started with her toxic friendship with Lauren, and 8 other reasons, and they led to bad business and personal decisions. These include the infamous time when Heidi underwent 10 surgeries in one day in 2009 at just 23 years of age, as well as losing all the money she ever made with her husband during her time on ‘The Hills’ and beyond. Let’s discuss…
Lauren Conrad: The 7 Biggest Mistakes She Made In Her Friendships With Heidi Montag and Audrina Patridge – And How Those Mistakes Made Her A Better Entrepreneur
Lauren Conrad is now a well-established businesswoman, blogger, and author. But she was also once a reality TV star, having starred in shows such as ‘Laguna Beach’ and ‘The Hills’. Lauren was someone that every teenage girl who grew up in the early and mid 2000’s strived to be. We all wanted to have what she had. We all wanted to have her fierceness and confidence. But as we revisited ‘The Hills’ years later as adults, we realized that Lauren wasn’t what she seemed. Though Heidi and Spencer were labeled as the show’s villains, we now understand that Lauren is the true villain of the show. Here, we break down Lauren’s career path and friendships, as well as how she mixed the two together, and the 7 biggest mistakes she made in her friendships with Heidi Montag and Audrina Patridge and how these mistakes made her a better entrepreneur. Let’s discuss…
Kylie Jenner & Jordyn Woods: The 8 Most Crucial Secret Ingredients For A Woman To Consider In Order To Maintain Long And Healthy Female Friendships
When we speak of a friendship breakup, we can’t not even mention Kylie Jenner’s breakup with her longtime best friend, Jordyn Woods. Between 2012 and 2019, the duo was inseparable. They called each other ‘wifey’. They were more important to each other than any boyfriend. Woods seemed to be more of a priority to Jenner than the father to her children, Travis Scott, who was her boyfriend at the time. Instead of living with him, she and their daughter, Stormi, lived with Woods. Nothing could tear them apart, or do it seems. It all came crashing down, though, in February 2019, after Woods was caught kissing Jenner’s sister’s, Khloe, boyfriend, Tristian Thompson. The friendship was fractured by Woods’ betrayal, but she and Jenner were spotted together a few times in the years since. In October, Jenner revealed that she never fully cut her former bestow out of her life, but rather put a distance. And so it begs the question, what is the secret to leading a healthy female friendship? Let’s discuss…
Little Mix: What Is The Bona Fide Definition and Significance Of Female Empowerment And A Female Friendship Ending Caused By The Lack Of…?
Little Mix was a British girl-group that won our hearts, as well as ‘The X Factor UK’ in 2011. They were together until 2022, which is an eternity in a world of bands, especially female-led bands that started out as teenagers. The girl-group, which consisted of Perrie Edwards, Jesy Nelson, Jade Thirlwall, and Leigh-Anne Pinnock, were the mere definition of female empowerment and women sticking together as a united front. That was until Jesy Nelson left the band in 2020 following her struggle with depression and anxiety. Nelson’s friendships with her former bandmates collapsed, but it wasn’t her leaving the group that caused the friction, but rather her actions, or lack of, thereafter. So that begged begs the question, ‘What is the real significance of female friendships and women supporting women? Perrie Edwards recently answered this question for me in a podcast interview on ‘Happy Place’. Let’s discuss…
Liam Payne: The Deadly Stigma Surrounding Early Fame, Addiction, And Mental Health In Men – And Why We Need To Continue The Conversation Following His Passing
Liam Payne’s death from a fall on October 16 hit a chord. He was a young artist who seemed to have it all. But it all came at a cost – his mental health. Throughout his career, Payne was very open about his struggles with alcohol and addiction throughout his time in One Direction. Maya Henry, his ex-fiancée, wrote an entire fictional book based on their relationship, which was abusive due to his lifestyle and demons. We analyze his other relationships, such as with Kate Cassidy, Cheryl, as well him as a father to his son, Bear. We answer questions like, ‘Was Liam Payne a bad person because of his addiction?’ With that said, Payne’s death was a great reminder of Matthew Perry’s death exactly a year ago, and it’s sparking a conversation on male mental health – both for famed celebrities and regular people. Let’s discuss…
Nicole Scherzinger: It’s The Battle Of The Sexes In Leadership – When A Powerful Woman Is Outshined By A Powerful Man
Nicole Scherzinger is a force to be reckoned with, and an underestimated one at that. She’s the former member of The Pussycat Dolls, former judge on ‘The X Factor, and an actress who currently stars in the theatre production of ‘Sunset Blvrd’. But it’s actually her short stint on ‘The X Factor UK’ from 2010 that’s been coming to light in recent years. As you might recall, Simon Cowell was credited for the formation of One Direction, but that was until a never-before-seen video was released in 2022 of how One Direction was ACTUALLY formed. Nevertheless, Cowell still seemed oblivious enough to take more credit than he should have; even as recent as this year. With that said, here we examine the differences between male and female leaders, who makes a better leader, and what makes a better leader. Let’s discuss…
Nikki Bella: Is It Better To Be With The Wrong Person To Fulfill Your Desire To Have Children Than Be With The Right Person And Make The Sacrifice Of Being Childless?
Nikki Bella is a reality star, a podcasted, and a WWE champion. If you’re a fan, you might remember that she was previously in a relationship with John Cena, another former WWE champion and actor. They broke up due in 2018 because Cena is someone who doesn’t want to ever have children, whereas Bella always desired to have children one day. Following the breakup, Bella reconnected with her former ‘Dancing With The Stars’ partner, Artem Chignitsev. She got everything she wanted – the child and a marriage. Since then, Bella has filed for divorce after a domestic dispute that happened between them on August 29, 3 days after they celebrated their 2 year wedding anniversary. The divorce is nasty. And so it begs a question: is it better to marry the wrong person and have a child with them, or marry the right person and sacrifice having children with them to be with them?